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How To Handle Arguments

         Hello, this is Carry with love Suggestion and today's topic is how to handle arguments .     Let's talk about arguments they suck nobody wants to be a part of an argument the problem is that the majority of the arguments that we have are based on a false premise they're based on a miscommunication or they are often based on a preconceived bias of a situation arguments are at their worst when you feel like you're not being heard in a situation which usually escalates a disagreement into an argument so today in this video let's talk about how we can maybe come to an easier way of understanding how to get through arguments together and maybe de-escalating them from arguments into discussions and yes the words that you use to call what the disagreement was are important because they will help inform the situation we are arguing is a lot different than we're having a disagreement so the very first coping skill that I'd like to discuss when tr...
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Confidence Is Everything

   Image by  Free-Photos  from  Pixabay            Hello, this is Carry with the love suggestion and today's topic is confidence is everything .        It's true confidence really is everything confidence is how we show that we are worth it's how we show the other person what we expect to happen during a dating situation or perhaps during a business meeting and it shows that we expect and demands the best from ourselves and others we've discussed before that we seek what we lack and so many people in this day and age lack confidence so what is confidence exactly because there are so many ways of defining confidence right it could be handling work handling people dealing with unknown situations I might not be confident of where I'm driving what is confidence so I like to define confidence as the ability to handle our environment and the certainty that we will come out of said situation okay now listen you're all ...

Anxious Attachment Style

           Hello, this is Carry with the love suggestions and today's topic is the anxious attachment style .        Let's talk about the anxious attachment style this is one of the most common attachment styles that are in the world and I thought of how this video would be best served and so I think we'll take a very step-by-step approach to how the anxious attachment style works obviously it's in the name this style has a very anxious attachment we learned that when we're attaching to a lover a caregiver etc there tend to be some needs that have been largely unmet but this doesn't mean that there was no love it just means that this style of attachment or rather somebody with the anxious attachment style has trouble self validating and as a result they feel much more anxious so if you have the anxious attachment style it will look something like this you're probably often worried about your relationships and you seek reassurance and af...

How Do We Fall In Love

                Hello, this is Carry with the love Suggestions and today's topic is how do we fall in love.           how we fall in love it's a little different between the genders and so what we'll do here is let's discuss how men tend to fall in love first so ladies this part is for you and gentlemen don't be too mad at me but the jig is up we fall in love faster than women do a 2010 study published in the journal of social psychology found that men reported not only falling in Love faster but saying I love you sooner than women and so this was surveyed by over I think it was over 160 college students            I'll link this survey below but the science and behavioral analysis does suggest that do in fact fall in love with women quicker but why what does it take for a man to fall in love with a woman first and foremost there are the physical attributes when a man looks at a woman and...