Hello, this is Carry with love Suggestion and today's topic is how to handle arguments . Let's talk about arguments they suck nobody wants to be a part of an argument the problem is that the majority of the arguments that we have are based on a false premise they're based on a miscommunication or they are often based on a preconceived bias of a situation arguments are at their worst when you feel like you're not being heard in a situation which usually escalates a disagreement into an argument so today in this video let's talk about how we can maybe come to an easier way of understanding how to get through arguments together and maybe de-escalating them from arguments into discussions and yes the words that you use to call what the disagreement was are important because they will help inform the situation we are arguing is a lot different than we're having a disagreement so the very first coping skill that I'd like to discuss when tr...